Benefits Of The Friendzone.

If you want someone to be your girlfriend, you cannot expect that person to deduce that through some process of mind-reading and code-deciphering…

As most of us know, the friendzone is a place that romantic intentions go to die: It’s an elephant graveyard where men who aren’t quite good enough to make the cut as boyfriends are politely relegated to rot in the terrain of friendship, while the object of your affection is off cavorting with other, better candidates.

At least, that’s the depressing way of looking at it. In reality, though, it’s a blessing in disguise. Here are reasons why: Continue reading

We Were Friends…

We just stopped talking…That’s how most friendships died.

You meet someone, get familiar with them, hi’s graduate to ‘how was the day’? Acquaintances evolve to rapport and then small talks and small secrets are shared.
Yea, the exchange of secrets, the funniest part of initial friendships. You tell them something you never tell anyone and then to “equalize” the secrets shared, they tell you theirs. It goes on for a while and then communication stops.
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The Direct Man…

Though the truth may hurt, she would prefer honesty to wasted time she’ll never get back.

Have you ever wondered what drives a woman to choose you? If you’re direct and confident while others remain passive, there’s no contest…you’ll already be the clear winner in her eyes.

Direct men are the type women are often the most attracted to. The reason for this has to do with Continue reading


Chukwu gozie gi nwanne!!!  #turnup #turndownforwhat #ourturnupisdifferent.

True friendship is a gift from God but, it takes someone like Chidiebere Ogbodo (@itselevated) to appreciate this gift.

He’s that friend that sticks closer than a brother. He’s always willing to help, always willing to assist and advice wisely. It’s difficult being in want around him because of his large heart…”his Giving is next to nothing”.  Continue reading

Hugging therapy…

We need four hugs a day for survival. We need eight hugs a day for maintenance. We need twelve hugs a day for growth.

For me, the simple act of hugging is such an incredible way to not only bond with others but also boost your physical, and emotional health and i try as much as i can to boost mine.

Hugging is definitely a powerful way of healing. Research shows that hugging (and also laughter) is extremely effective at healing sickness, disease, loneliness, depression, anxiety and stress.

A proper deep hug, where the hearts are pressing together, can benefit you in these ways:

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Friends With Benefits…

There is a difference between vulnerability and telling people everything about ourself. Vulnerability is a feeling. Telling everyone about ourself is just facts and details.

What is friendship??? There are a myriad of definitions on this subject, some based on stories, some based on experiences, some based on dictionary definitions.

Personally, I see friendship in 3 different ways; Continue reading