She’s Annoying Right???

Men love women. We do. We love making them laugh. We love their bodies and their smiles. We love the way they dance and the way they walk, and the gracefulness they bring to even the most mundane, everyday chores. We smile when they’re happy and do our best to comfort them when they’re not.

Which probably goes a long way toward understanding how we put up with the crazy things they do. (Why they put up with us, on the other hand, is a total mystery.) So here are 10 things women do that drive us crazy, inspired by this  Reddit thread. Continue reading

When Romance Dies…

It’s no fun thing to admit, but the romantic love stage of a relationship isn’t meant to last. Actually, there are three phases of relationships: the Ideal, the Ordeal, and the Real Deal. When we fall in love  (the first stage), our brain becomes flooded with the neurons, which increase our positive outlook, diminish pain, and cause us to feel safe and calm. They help motivate us to make the commitment to a relationship. So that first stage is all well and good – but what happens when it ends?  Continue reading

PHOTOs: Comedian/OAP Warri Bros Proposes To Girlfriend On Her Birthday…

Love Is A Beautiful Thing!!!

There comes a time in a man’s life when he has to “Close the doors on the world, so he can be together…with his soul mate, partner and most trusted friend…”. For Collin Udogun, popularly known as Warri Bros, one of the best comedians I have heard, that time is Now.

At a surprise birthday party on sunday, he “knelt down” like a classic man and asked her to marry him. In his own words; Continue reading

Best Traits Of A Girlfriend…

If This Sounds Like Your Girlfriend, Don’t Lose her.

You know what? Am feeling sentimental thinking about true love. Maybe or not, it really does exist, you know? Despite the odds and everything. Maybe there’s more to life than playing the field. Well, i strongly believe you can create your own relationship success by looking for the right traits in a woman, instead of allowing your feelings to get the best of you. Lets take a look at some of the traits; Continue reading

Office Romance…

inter-office dating can be immeasurably fun. Hand-holding moments, swift, stolen kisses and flirty calls/sms/email exchanges…

Really, It’s no wonder. We spend more time with colleagues than anyone else. We share common interests because we’re in the same line of work and hook-ups are predictable when after-work drinks turn into late-night parties, where booze helpfully swipes all inhibitions.*shakes head*

But, as anyone who’s dabbled their pen in the office ink will verify, dating a co-worker is fraught with complication.  From someone speaking from experience, trust me, there are a few simple rules by which you must comply: Continue reading

Loneliness in Love…

Lonely people often think similarly that the way out of loneliness is to receive the love of another

Can love and loneliness go on the same path in a man’s life? waking up in the morning to deliberate on why nature gave you this life, in which it seems you have been left alone in a world of your own. It is something very deep to be understood, something of great significance.

After seeing the movie “FROZEN” , I understood how someone could be Loved and Left Alone, and this exposes such person to loneliness irrespective of age, gender, class, social status, level of education, etc.

Here, are Personal, helpful tips on dealing with loneliness from the movie; Continue reading

Hugging therapy…

We need four hugs a day for survival. We need eight hugs a day for maintenance. We need twelve hugs a day for growth.

For me, the simple act of hugging is such an incredible way to not only bond with others but also boost your physical, and emotional health and i try as much as i can to boost mine.

Hugging is definitely a powerful way of healing. Research shows that hugging (and also laughter) is extremely effective at healing sickness, disease, loneliness, depression, anxiety and stress.

A proper deep hug, where the hearts are pressing together, can benefit you in these ways:

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Doubts In Relationships…

But jealousy-induced break-ups have only gotten worse with the rise of social media and instant messaging apps.

Of course there are always the ups and downs in any long-term relationship. There are the instances when you want to spend less time at home and more time out with the friends, there are the periods when things start feeling less exciting, and there are the days when nothing you say is taken the right way. Most of these can be brushed off as hiccups, but if you find yourself constantly explaining to your friends, to your family and to yourself why you feel like you need more alone time, or the nothing-feels-exciting feeling never lets up, it’s time to rethink where you’re at.

These 11 relationship red flags might be the wake-up calls you need to either make major changes within your relationship — or to get out entirely; Continue reading

True Beauty…

Outer beauty is a reflection of our inner experience.

Many women today have lost sight of what true beauty is. There seems to be an unspoken rule that women are not worth being seen in public unless they are dressed to the gills, with overdone make-up and flashy clothing. There are those who dress in high heels and bangle earrings to go shopping, and others who squeeze themselves into jeans and form-fitting tops to join the parade at the mall. Even older women seemed to have fallen prey to the idea that their beauty is wrapped up in how they look. Continue reading

Long-Distance Relationship…

A long-distance relationship is no time to be a challenge; it’s a time to keep your lady loving and missing you, and looking forward to seeing you again.

So, you or your girlfriend is relocating to another city for school or a new job, and you two are debating about whether you should break up, or try having a long-distance relationship.

Forgive my bluntness, but don’t even think about going through with a long-distance relationship, unless you are both extremely devoted to one another, and willing to make sacrifices for the relationship. If this doesn’t sound like you, then you should cut your losses now, and avoid a potentially heart-wrenching situation in the future…Trust me, i have been there.

If, on the other hand, you are both ready and willing to handle a relationship from afar, then read-on.


As hard as this may initially seem, it is imperative for you to relax and trust one another. In other words, don’t start assuming the worst just because your girlfriend/wife is making new friends, or going out more with her friends back home.

If you call and she isn’t there, don’t automatically think that it’s because some guy has come in and taken your place.  If you don’t trust her enough to let her live her life without you by her side at every moment, then perhaps you should reread my introduction, and admit that you aren’t prepared to handle a long-distance relationship after all.

make time

Of course, relocating to a new city will involve meeting new people and doing new things, but that doesn’t mean that your significant other should fall to the bottom of your list of priorities.

It is important to set aside time every day to phone, instant messaging platforms or e-mail each other, without any distractions. Tell each other details about your day, your friends, co-workers, etc., so that you both feel a part of the other person’s life; this seemingly small step will go a long way in reducing the distance between the two of you.


Make an effort to visit one another as often as possible, not only when it is expected, such as for holidays. Make sure that it isn’t always the same person who is going out of their way for the other, because this will inevitably lead to some serious resentment.

If you don’t put in the time and effort to see one another, then you will eventually drift apart, no matter how strong your love is. After all, you need some physical contact to keep a relationship going. *smiles profusely*

plan ahead

Be sure to organize your schedule so that when she does come to visit, you have nothing to do but spend quality time with her. Tell your friends and family that you are officially unavailable during the time that you and your (sweetie/ Shuga,/Swit) plan on being together.This will not only be enjoyable in itself, but it will also make her feel like her efforts were appreciated, and that she is truly loved.

love her madly

If you decide that you can cope with a long-distance relationship, there are a few key qualities you both must possess for it to really work, namely, loyalty, trust, respect, and love for one another. And I’m not talking about really liking the other person; I’m talking about the uncontrollable, inexplicable, blinding kind of love, which you will do almost anything to hold on to. If you’ve got that, but can also respect each other as individuals, then you can make it work.


Valentine’s Day

Not just romantic love between couples, but love in all of its forms.

Valentine’s Day is merely an arbitrary day that we use as a light hearted way to express our feelings to our partners. It is also true that this day sustains the myth that all couples are happy. For those in stable, loving relationships, the day offers a wonderful opportunity to express or reaffirm their love.  For those who are recently bereaved, divorced, or single, this is a day that can trigger feelings of overwhelming loneliness and grief. (Accept my condolence)

Many people who find themselves alone on this day (*smiles*), struggle with past hurts, grief, and feelings of inadequacy.  While they are bombarded with images of happy couples, it is important that they remember that their identity is not defined by their relationship status. A person’s worth comes from who they are, not who they are with.

Valentines Day offers us a unique opportunity to undertake a new perspective on how we choose to celebrate love.  The traditional approach with flowers, cards, and romance works beautifully for some.  For others, a display of love towards children, parents, or friends can be equally rewarding.  But in the midst of all the various means of displaying love to others, let us not forget the benefits of looking after our own needs.  This Valentine’s Day, offer yourself the same thing you give to all of the loved ones in your life, and make the effort to show yourself a little love!!!

Now I must say this to you…Today, Give Love like you’ve never done before but while at it, BE CAREFUL!!! No Vomiting after 3 months Ladies. *winks like korede Bello* I LOVE YOU ALL, NOW AND ALWAYS.